The Marriage Transformation Podcast

Breaking Free from Fear: Unlocking Your Limitless Potential

Cody Butler

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What if the only thing standing between you and your dreams is a cloud of fear? Join us as we dissect this powerful metaphor, examining how these illusory boundaries keep us confined and how we can shatter them to unlock our limitless potential. Imagine breaking free from societal constraints and realizing the immense power within you. Our discussion challenges the societal structures that thrive on our limitations and offers a roadmap for reclaiming your power. 

In this episode, we confront the fears that have stifled your dreams and provide actionable insights to break through these mental barriers. Listen as we unravel the myth that fear holds any real substance and explore how it serves as a convenient tool for those who benefit from our limitations. It's time to step out of the salt mines and become a true threat to the system. Get ready for an empowering session that promises to inspire you to push beyond your comfort zone, face risks head-on, and ask yourself, "What if it goes right?

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There's no situation that you can find yourself in and there's not another man on this call or within this program that hasn't overcome. The challenge that you're facing is nothing more than a cloud that is an illusion to keep you in your box. That's all it is. And when you realize that those clouds have no substance, I'm going to get through them no matter what and I'm not going to fall for this illusion. Boundaries of the box are removed. I can't move forward because it's like, well, that's a cloud and it has no substance. The only reason it has substance is because you are giving it that in your mind. You are making that boundary. Each and every one of you is a man with limitless potential that can achieve anything, that can do anything. Yet we've got all of these clouds around us which are the boundaries of our box, and we're looking at and going I can't see the sun. I can't achieve. There's nothing I can't achieve. There's nothing I can't do. There's nothing I cannot overcome.

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Now, I'm not saying it's going to be easy, I'm not saying it's pleasant, but ultimately we got it. We got to look at fear and go bring it on. I'll have some of that. You know people go. I've done it. I've done everything to say I can do to save my marriage. Now you haven't. You've done everything you're comfortable to do. And then you start getting you know, well, I'm not, I'm not willing to do that, I'm not willing. So you haven't done everything.

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And the reality is the reason you're where you are financially is because you pushed yourself to the edge of your comfort. Greater results are on the other side of fear. You got to a place of fear and you said that's enough, I'm satisfied. The reason you are where you are in your business, in your job, is because you get to a point of fear, like if I expand, that risk, and that's fear. Or what if I? What if it goes wrong? That's fear. The only way I can expand in my business is to push through that fear, through that boundary, and say what if it goes right? Your health, everything. It's like what you've pushed up, you've done everything that you're prepared to do to get the result that you're looking for. Until you've hit the boundary of fear and you've got enough. I can't deal with this fear now. There's too much fear involved, there's too much risk involved. But on the other side of fear is everything you want.

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If you don't have it, it's because it's on the other side of fear and we've got to realize that that fear is nothing more than a cloud separating you from the sun and the sun is your full potential. Once you get through that cloud, it's like, as anyone that's ever flown knows, once you get through that cloud and it's usually quite low level it's like there is no more cloud. It's like there's nothing between you and the sun. Limitless potential at that point. But guess what? It doesn't serve anybody for you to know that. It doesn't serve the world and the people that run the world for you to know that you can do anything, be anything, have anything. They want you as cannon fodder or they want you in the salt mine. That's where they want you. They don't want you going. I can do anything and I can be anything and I can have anything. That doesn't serve them. The second you realize your full potential, you become a threat to the system. You become a threat, while you are still thinking that those clouds are real. You're not a threat, you're a useful tool. You're going to go into the army and be cannon fodder. You're going to go to the salt mine and you're going to mine salt for the corporation. You're useful.

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How many of us have had a dream at some point in time and we put a stop to it because it was too dangerous, too risky, too much fear. That's where all our dreams die. It's the graveyard of dreams, isn't it? It's fear. It's like all of our dreams have come to a stop because of fear. Well, here's the news, guys. It was just a cloud and it's still just a cloud, and you're all young enough so you can get your wives back. There's nothing stopping you. You've just got to go. Okay, I'm prepared to go outside on my box, and that's going to be uncomfortable. It's going to involve trust. I'm going to have to trust, and that's scary. It's simplicity on the far side of complexity. Once you understand this stuff, it's the simplest thing in the world to do. But as men, as human beings, we have to go all the way through complexity to arrive at simplicity, unfortunately.